I’m not dating anyone right now, let’s get that out of the way 😌 — but I am very observant. And with hundreds of messages I received from TikTok after some viral videos, I’ve started noticing some patterns based on where people are from.
Let’s talk about the men, specifically from Serbia and Albania—because the contrast is actually fascinating.
🇷🇸 Serbian men (at least the ones following me) are nonchalant. They don’t really slide into the DMs with flirty one-liners or “u so beautiful bby” energy. But when they do message, it’s usually helpful, respectful, and… effortful? Like, they send full translations, tips about local culture, or even thoughtful comments on my content. It’s low-key energy, but consistent. No big words, just actions.
🇦🇱 Albanian men, on the other hand, are bold. They’re expressive. They will call you “the woman of their dreams” after 3 TikToks and ask when you’re visiting Albania again. They’re confident and quick with compliments, and honestly? It’s flattering… but sometimes feels like too much, too fast.
What’s interesting is that both seem genuine — just in different ways. Serbians might not say much at first, but they show up steadily once they feel safe with you. Albanians come in hot, but sometimes pull away if you don’t match their energy right away.
And then… there’s 🇽🇰 Kosovo Albanian men — the unexpected hybrid energy. They’re like a mix of the two. XD You know why.
This isn’t about dating — this is about observing how people show up. And for me, it’s been a reminder that words and effort come in different forms depending on culture.
So no, I’m not in love — I’m just fascinated. And very well-supported in my comment section 😂
